Dear Evan Hamilton,
I think that you need to work on your relationship with your son. I know that you think you are doing him a favor, making him more manly by pulling away, but really, he is reaching out to you and you’re just pulling farther and farther away from him. I don’t understand why you closed the door half way on him? Why pull farther away from your son? I think you need to find the balance of giving your son space to grow and being there for him when all he wants to do is get to know you. I know that you want to be a good role model for your son, but how can you be when you do not know anything about his social life and the kids he hangs out with. Was getting into a fight with Mr. Berman your best solution? You really upset Roger by the fight. Is that the kind of father you want to be known by, not only by your son, but also by your son’s friends? Roger ruined a child’s bike and you’re surprised? He doesn’t have you acting as a good role model for him. Do you really want the same relationship you had with your Dad, that you are now recreating with your son? Your son just wants to know and love you and you are too afraid, too busy to let him in. Try not to be so hard on him.